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Thread: My Sex Life's Been A Fucking Sham!

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    Unhappy My Sex Life's Been A Fucking Sham!

    So I was talking to a girlfriend last week about sex and she was like "I cum everytime during sex" and I told her I've never cum during penetration (well only once, but that was two years ago with the guy I lost my virginity to), and it made me feel a bit shit and think about my sex life. Honestly, it's been shit and I'm starting to think is it me? What's wrong with my body? Why can't I cum? Or is it the men I've slept with? Not to sound like a cunt, but is it their fault?
    I just want to have good sex...is that too much to ask? Anyone have any tips?


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    Calm down. It sounda like tour hung up on sex and orgasms more than anything. Just stop worrying. Find out things that make you orgasm in your own time loads of things work different positions finding your g spot its a marathon in your case not a sprint. Keep calm it will happen
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    It's completely normal!! I've only cum 3 times from just penetration, stick a pillow under his hips, jump on top and rub/grind your clitoris on his groin/hip bone that usually works or a stick a vibrator down there. Lots and lots and lots of foreplay for you first and relax! Or try doggy style with his finger up your bum and him pushing his penis down so it rubs your g spot more.



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    What about a nice massage first to get you really relaxed



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    You could try getting some good weed for your partner if not the both of you,i like to think it turns me into a sort of poor man's sting... but it might be the weed
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    Originally Posted by Offgrid hero
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    You could try getting some good weed for your partner if not the both of you,i like to think it turns me into a sort of poor man's sting... but it might be the weed
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    Yeah stoned sex is good
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    Firstly how do you really know your friend is telling the truth re having an orgasm everytime??Try masturbating first,so you know what works and what does'nt for you.The thing is with guys,they're probably only ever be as good at sex as their last partners,because how else would a guy know what turns a lady on,unless she guides/tells him?Don't blame the guy!Be patient.
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    Originally Posted by Offgrid hero
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    it turns me into a sort of poor man's sting... but it might be the weed
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    Poor man's sting... Love it
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    Research tantra.
    We all lead different lives.
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    What's a poor man's sting? I don't understand.

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    Originally Posted by Roamer
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    What's a poor man's sting? I don't understand.
    I'm glad someone asked, I haven't got a clue
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    Originally Posted by Roamer
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    What's a poor man's sting? I don't understand.
    You know,like a budget heart throb version of "Sting" from the band, "The Police"
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    Originally Posted by nomis
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    You know,like a budget heart throb version of "Sting" from the band, "The Police"
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    Ah thank you. I feel a right muppet now!

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    Originally Posted by nomis
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    You know,like a budget heart throb version of "Sting" from the band, "The Police"
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    Que?
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    I so would of though. I really fancied him.
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    Very sexy man he was
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    still is!

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    Originally Posted by DaisyDreamer
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    Ah thank you. I feel a right muppet now!
    I still don't get it
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    I iz thick
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    I thought everybody knew about Sting's epic tantric love making abilities
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    just a simple guy
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    Originally Posted by Offgrid hero
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    I thought everybody knew about Sting's epic tantric love making abilities
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    I just know he sings nice & he's smooth but with a bit of rough if that makes sense.

    He's been married for donkey years & never gets bad press. He must be a good boy
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    What's tantric?
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    I'm going to have to Google later
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    There was a time I wanted to give tantric a go.............I'm not sure I could stay awake for long enough these days
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    Sting admitted many years later that their 10 hour tantric sessions included .... going out for dinner, seeing a show, then the laugh and unwind together, the giggling, the slowly winding it up together. He didn't have his finger up her arse for 10 hrs
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    Originally Posted by Uncle jhad
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    Sting admitted many years later that their 10 hour tantric sessions included .... going out for dinner, seeing a show, then the laugh and unwind together, the giggling, the slowly winding it up together. He didn't have his finger up her arse for 10 hrs
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    Knowing my luck I would have been sat next to them in the restaurant
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    just a simple guy

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    Originally Posted by Uncle jhad
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    Sting admitted many years later that their 10 hour tantric sessions included .... going out for dinner, seeing a show, then the laugh and unwind together, the giggling, the slowly winding it up together. He didn't have his finger up her arse for 10 hrs
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    I like him even more now
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    sounds like my kind of man.
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    I use to practice survival sex,steel toe cap boots, chainsaw leggings, anti stab vest,welders gauntlets and a crash helmet. you never met the ex wife did you ?
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    Originally Posted by wandering gypsy
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    I use to practice survival sex,steel toe cap boots, chainsaw leggings, anti stab vest,welders gauntlets and a crash helmet. you never met the ex wife did you ?
    She must have been really into you
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    I quite fancy you myself now
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    I'm gonna start a new thread coz otherwise I just start prattling on & I send em all off thread & then I get upset when I get pulled up & I cry & get all snotty
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    my tissue isn't the best value
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    I'm going back to my aloe Vera lou roll
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