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    15 years

    Hello. I had been with my partner for 15 years. We had a 24 year age gap. We stopped having sex about 5 years ago (or more?). 3 years ago my mother passed away & I craved intimacy/being held etc. 2 years ago I cheated on him with a married man. We slept together once at a swimigers club & it was mind blowing. Never saw him again although we kept on communicating & a year later his wife found out so we're not in touch anymore. After that I decided to throw myself back into my relationship & we did loads of things together but I wasn't fulfilled sexually. I started chatting with a couple of guys & another married man who enjoyed hearing me come down the phone. He wanted to hear me having sex with someone else & suggested I went on Plenty of Fish. About 2 weeks ago I did just that. Met a guy & the sex was amaxing + we clicked on so many other levels I decided to tell my partner I no longer wanted a rekationship, I just want a friendship. I feel happier than ever but bad for my partner bexause I've not told him the truth. Opinions please!


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    Keep regular appointments with the gum clinic .
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    at least you are being honest

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    if this happened to me and I was the male of the partnership i'd walk away....fast.

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    Get in!! Shit happens enjoy yourself
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    I left my 22yr age gap sexless dead marriage for his brother so I can't say owt really lol and then in the week gap between the both i fucked 2 men and a women in the same day



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    you bragging again?
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    It's hard when you have to leave the relationship. Did your partner go to the swingers party with you? Is there some health issue with your partner? Glad you got your buzz back and that you've been honest enough to end your relationship before you went off exploring. Many don't bother to and that loss of trust destroys any chance of keeping that true friendship safe. If I was your partner, I wouldn't want to know that you cheated on me and it resulted in ending the relationship. But at the same time. I would want you to find the courage to tell me the truth, everything and for it not to just slip out in years to come. If your partner has come to terms with the separation, filling in the gaps might help him stop wondering. It's a cruel world and grazing on the greener stuff is OK if you don't end up going off the diet or eat something that makes you sick.
    even a gypsy caravan is too much settling down.
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    Originally Posted by hagrid
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    you bragging again?
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    Hell yeah!

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    not something i'd want to brag about I think, 3 in one day? didn't give you any time for anything else does it? unless its over in a flash that is.
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    I dont see what purpose it would serve to hurt your partner by telling him every detail.
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    For some,sex is a very important part of a r/ship and for others,not so important.I'm sure,being the responsible adult you are,sleeping with different partners,you are using some form of protection.You are a free spirit,so do what makes you happy.Just make sure you respect yourself enough to not be used by anyone,and stay safe.
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    Originally Posted by Lightbringer
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    I left my 22yr age gap sexless dead marriage for his brother so I can't say owt really lol and then in the week gap between the both i fucked 2 men and a women in the same day

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    Originally Posted by hagrid
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    not something i'd want to brag about I think, 3 in one day? didn't give you any time for anything else does it? unless its over in a flash that is.
    If it was after a sexless dead marriage, I'd be over the moon to have a day without time for anything but sex, sex and more sex
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    Well, first things first, this reads like another spam traffic-builder post. However, on the off chance that it's genuine, I have to ask: Do you actually know what love is ?

    If you love your partner you will make sacrifices. For example, your partner might lose their sex-drive, or have an accident or illness that prevents a normal sex life. Will you dump your partner because of this ? If so, I'd suggest you haven't got much of a relationship, much like men who visit prostitutes when their wives are pregnant.
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    Sex and intimacy are not the same thing, you can have intimacy without intercourse and you can have loving 'sex' without intercourse. Conversely if you have intercourse with a complete stranger there will be no intimacy. Sometimes it more about the excitement of breaking the rules and the danger of being caught that is the turn on

    This is where words and their meanings become ambiguous.

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    Originally Posted by Boaty McBoatface
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    Well, first things first, this reads like another spam traffic-builder post. However, on the off chance that it's genuine, I have to ask: Do you actually know what love is ?

    If you love your partner you will make sacrifices. For example, your partner might lose their sex-drive, or have an accident or illness that prevents a normal sex life. Will you dump your partner because of this ? If so, I'd suggest you haven't got much of a relationship, much like men who visit prostitutes when their wives are pregnant.
    Agree with this! if not - what is your phone number?
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    dear hippysal
    I wish more women would be honest with themselves and get out there to meet guys for casual (but friendly and with a lot of respect) encounters with other people. Not everyone can be fulfilled all the time by the same partner. As a straight guy, i think physical intimacy with an attractive woman is the most beautiful thing in the world. I crave it all the time! If someone (woman!) is out there and wants to experience that special magic with me, please get in touch. Dan (swansea)
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    Originally Posted by danstan
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    dear hippysal
    I wish more women would be honest with themselves and get out there to meet guys for casual (but friendly and with a lot of respect) encounters with other people. Not everyone can be fulfilled all the time by the same partner. As a straight guy, i think physical intimacy with an attractive woman is the most beautiful thing in the world. I crave it all the time! If someone (woman!) is out there and wants to experience that special magic with me, please get in touch. Dan (swansea)
    That's the best we've had in a long time..... not many women are 'fulfilled with occasional shags" most would like a loving trusting,fulfilling relationship' or your wish would be reality. I was more honest with myself and just wished more women would be up for a shag like most horny blokes tend to be and after a few pints we would shag anything. I used to say if I was born a woman, I would be a whore and make the weaker sex starved males pay dearly for it.
    even a gypsy caravan is too much settling down.
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    Originally Posted by danstan
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    dear hippysal
    I wish more women would be honest with themselves and get out there to meet guys for casual (but friendly and with a lot of respect) encounters with other people. Not everyone can be fulfilled all the time by the same partner. As a straight guy, i think physical intimacy with an attractive woman is the most beautiful thing in the world. I crave it all the time! If someone (woman!) is out there and wants to experience that special magic with me, please get in touch. Dan (swansea)
    Go on lad!!!

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