Hello. I had been with my partner for 15 years. We had a 24 year age gap. We stopped having sex about 5 years ago (or more?). 3 years ago my mother passed away & I craved intimacy/being held etc. 2 years ago I cheated on him with a married man. We slept together once at a swimigers club & it was mind blowing. Never saw him again although we kept on communicating & a year later his wife found out so we're not in touch anymore. After that I decided to throw myself back into my relationship & we did loads of things together but I wasn't fulfilled sexually. I started chatting with a couple of guys & another married man who enjoyed hearing me come down the phone. He wanted to hear me having sex with someone else & suggested I went on Plenty of Fish. About 2 weeks ago I did just that. Met a guy & the sex was amaxing + we clicked on so many other levels I decided to tell my partner I no longer wanted a rekationship, I just want a friendship. I feel happier than ever but bad for my partner bexause I've not told him the truth. Opinions please!