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    Free Pass

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    My wife and I have had threesomes with high class escorts. My wife now wants me to visit one by myself and film it for her to enjoy. She is also keen for me to go on the pull as it were again to film for her to enjoy. I was worried she would want to do the same but she has no interest in this she does love watching me with a woman sexually. I don't actually have any wish to have sex with other women but as my wife who I love very much desires it should I do it for her ??
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    Orrrr is it a test?

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    I thought that but she's offered it every now and then for about the last five years. She gets extremely horny and excited talking about it and even talks to me about it when we are in the throws of sex. She loved watching me have sex with the third person always a female in our threesomes.

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    Some people enjoy just watching. No pressure for them to 'perform' they can just get their jollies watching you do all the work. if you're both confident that is the case, go for it, I'd say.
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    You have doubts otherwise you wouldn't ask so there's your answer.


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    I agree I'm not pretending I don't.
    I don't want to ruin a good marriage but then I also don't want to deprive my wife of her fantasy.

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    The trouble with fantasies is that once you've fulfilled them there is nothing left to look forward to..
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    A free pass that'll more than likely end in tears.Advice for your wife?Take up knitting!And for you?Golf! Learn to meditate.It'll give you more clarity and peace,which is way more important than fulfilling sexual fantasies!
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    Originally Posted by Miss_bee
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    The trouble with fantasies is that once you've fulfilled them there is nothing left to look forward to..
    Never found that. Never been disappointed by one or failed to see it lead to another

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    Originally Posted by Libido
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    Never found that. Never been disappointed by one or failed to see it lead to another
    In which case why ask?
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    So, why hesitate about the missus' fantasy then? If its all good, and she is happy, get to it, man! Lol

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    Originally Posted by Cobra
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    A free pass that'll more than likely end in tears.Advice for your wife?Take up knitting!And for you?Golf! Learn to meditate.It'll give you more clarity and peace,which is way more important than fulfilling sexual fantasies!
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    If our lives were golf and knitting I'd shoot us both
    Meditate already do.
    Fulfilled sexual fantasy is better than not having a relationship where we can explore with each other rather than firing wondering or cheating behind each other's backs.
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    Originally Posted by Rick69
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    In which case why ask?
    I was interested thought I might hear from someone who had done this. Isn't a forum built on people asking questions and others commenting?

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    Originally Posted by Miss_bee
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    So, why hesitate about the missus' fantasy then? If its all good, and she is happy, get to it, man! Lol
    Because I'm not a Bloke who is unfulfilled by my wife sexually. It's never been my fantasy. I wanted opinions from people who may have done it or had constructive advice.

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    Difficult territory man..........daring to go off piste and risk loss and change............in the lap of those fucking GOD bastards/bitches - who seem to like sticking their esoteric archetypical energies into our little human mixes to see how much personal development we can take.........all the best anyways, you're not on your own xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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    Originally Posted by Libido
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    If our lives were golf and knitting I'd shoot us both
    Meditate already do.
    Fulfilled sexual fantasy is better than not having a relationship where we can explore with each other rather than firing wondering or cheating behind each other's backs.
    It was meant tongue in cheek?
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    I've said this before on another post but some people use sex as a hobby.Hence my knitting and golf comments.I'll be the first to admit,I struggle to understand open r/ships.So you dont want to screw around behind eachother's backs.I get that part.What I dont get is why you're not single,and then you can just do what you want,without any potential complications.
    Are you both meditating?Because the aim of meditating is to gain peace.I don't believe either of you will find this in the lifestyle choices you've made.
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    Originally Posted by Cobra
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    It was meant tongue in cheek?
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    I've said this before on another post but some people use sex as a hobby.Hence my knitting and golf comments.I'll be the first to admit,I struggle to understand open r/ships.So you dont want to screw around behind eachother's backs.I get that part.What I dont get is why you're not single,and then you can just do what you want,without any potential complications.
    Are you both meditating?Because the aim of meditating is to gain peace.I don't believe either of you will find this in the lifestyle choices you've made.
    We don't have an open relationship if we did I would not be in this conundrum.
    My wife has a fantasy and although I want to fulfill it I do not want an open relationship and she is not asking for that.
    We are married because we love each other very much and have for the last 25+ years.
    We both meditate and are at peace that doesn't mean we don't have fantasies and don't want new experiences. To genuinely be at peace one needs the answers not unanswered questions.
    Amuses me we have a relationship where we can talk about things like this together and explore but people just want to cast doubt on our marriage and solidity.

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    Firstly...I Will Say There Is A Difference Between
    "A Sexual Fantasy And A Sexual Fetish"......And It Seems To Be That Your Wife Has "A Sexual Fetish" .. So Therefore It Is More Of A "Need" Which Is The "Big" Difference Between A "Sexual Fantasy And A Sexual Fetish"...Because The "Sexual Fantasy" Is More About Making Things Fun And "Fullfilling" Desires And Fantasies And Making Someones Naughtie Hidden Thougts/Dreams /Wishes And There Hidden Secret Desires Come True ...But More In Sexual Fun Pleasure Way To Heighten/Turn On The Persons Sexual Desires And Pleasures During Sex/Making Love/ Etc .

    Whereas And Be "The Sexual Fetish" Is Very Different Even Though Slightly Similar Because A Sexual Fetish Is NOT All About Sexual Fun An Fullfilling Wishes And Desires And Wants And There Fantasies Etc As I Said Above.
    It Is "A Need"...They Need That ..And Have To Have That To Fulfill Them And To Get Them "Fully Sexually Aroused...As It Is "That Need" The Craving Filled That Gives Them The Arousal And Enjoyment They Need To Either Reach A Full Orgasm Or Even Enjoy And Get Pleasure From Sex/Making Love Etc ...

    A Sexual Fetsih Almost And Does In Fact Become An Obbsession ..A Craving ..An Addiction For Many People And Giving Them What They Want And Need Feeds That Hunger And Satisfies That Need/Craving And Gives Them There Only Way Of Reaching There Sexual Arousal And Sexual Orgasm....Which Sadly Many Partners/Husbands/ Wifes/Girlfriends/Boyfriends Etc Do Not Understand As They Either Are Cosumed By Jealousy And Fear That They Are Not Good Enough Sexually ..Or They Are Not Sexually Attractive Anymore Or They Are Sexually Not Good Enough Etc Etc Etc Depending On What The Fetish Is ..
    And Having A Sexusl Fetish That Involves Another Person Or Other People Etc Is In Fact "The Most Common" Of Peoples Fetishes..But Most Often "Is The Most (Hardest) For There "Wife/Husband/Partner/Girlfriend /Boyfriend Etc To Accept And Understand Let Alone For Them To Take Part In Or Fulfill That Sexual Fetish Need And Sadly Because For Many It Will Nevr Be Understood And Never Happen It Sadly Causes The Breakdown Of The Relationship/Marriage Etc .Because They Do Not See It Or Understand It As A "A Sexual Need/Addiction Etc And The Only Way That Person Can Be Fully Aroused And Why People Who Have This Fetish Or Other Fetish "Talk And Fantasize About It During Sex/Love Making Etc ..Because It Is "Those Thoughts" That Is Actually Keeping Them Fully Aroused Sexually And Reaching Orgasm Because They Are Feed That "Need" Even Though Talking About It During Sex/Love Making Etc Only Gives Them A "Quick Fix" To Fulfill "That Need" To Give Them Full Sexual Pleasure And Sexual Orgasm..Etc ..So As Said There Is A Big Big "Difference" And The "MOST" Difficult To Understand And Accept And Give To Your Wife/Husband/Partner/GF/BF Etc.

    So Yes I Can Fully Understand Why You Are Saying About The Things You And Your Wife Have Done In Past And Still Do As You Have Accepted And Understood Your Wifes Sexual Fetsih Needs Etc That Give Her Sexual Pleasure And Sexual Orgasm Etc.

    But Now She Is Saying This ...And What Worries Me Is That You Say You Do Not Really Want To Do It ...
    BUT...You "HAVE" Been Doing Exactly That Before As You Say "In A Threesome" ....So The ONLY Difference Is That
    "You Was Not And Never Alone" As You Wife Either Has Joined In Or Has Been There Watching You Both As You Said.
    So The Problem Is Now As Said "Your Alone" ..And Maybe You Need The Confidence /Security Of Having Your Wife There.. And Also You Without Sounding Mean Or Judging As I Am NOT ...Both You And Your Wife "PAID" To Fullfill Your Wifes Fetish And Need And Filmed That And So Why It Was More Easier Etc To Have And Find Willing Others To Be In A Threesome And Film It Or Have A Mans Wife Film You When You Have Sex With Her Husband Or Filming You Having Sex With Them As That Will Be Really Hard For MOST If Not ALL Women You Have "Pulled" So To Speak To Want Accept And Do....And Most If Not All Will Either Toss A Drink Over You Or Slap You And Run For The Hills Calling You Names Along The Way hahahaha.
    As The Real "Non Paid Outside World" Is A Lot Different From High Class Escorts Who Are Easily Willing To Do This......But Like I Said "Some Will" ..But You Would Have More Luck Searching For People Who Are More Into That And Enjoy That Rather Than "Just Going On The Pull" As You Call It.

    And Lastly.....My Worry Is As You Say "That You Do Not Like/Enjoy Sleeping With Other Women ...But Only Do It And Have Done It To Please Your Wife !! Who Now Has Changed That Need To You Being On Your Own And Her Not Around And You Film It For Her..Etc ..
    That Does Worry Me ..Because You Should "NEVER" Be Forced Or Feel Forced Into Doing Anything And Especially Sexual To Do Something You Dont Want To And Do Not
    Enjoy Simply Because You Love Someone And Want To Make Them Happy In Every Way Possible .....As There Are Ways Around Many Things ..Its Called "Sexually Compromising" And Give And Take And Making Sex/Love Making Etc Both Beautiful And Enjoyable For (YOU BOTH)
    Not Just Enjoyable FOR ONE... So That Is What Concerns Me The Most Out Of All This ....As It Is Selfish And Mean And Uncaring For Someone And Anyone To Be Using "LOVE" To Force Someone/Anybody To Have Sex With Abybody/Anyone They Do Not Really Want To...Its Jind Of Sexual Emotional Blackmail And A Form Of Mental Sexual Abuse ......And Can Easily Spiral Out Of Control As It Starts Of With One Thing ...And Then Changes To Another As Time Goes By...And The More Ubcomfortable The Person Becomes...All For The Wrong Sake Of "Love"...BUT Please Understand I Am NOT AND WOULD NEVER SAY That Your Wife Is Abusing You In Anyway As I Am NOT ..
    I Am Just Saying You Need To Talk To Your Wife And Let Her Know You Dont Really Enjoy Or Want To Sleep With Other Women And Simply Tell Her How You Feel....Truly Because As You Say You BOTH Love Each Other Very Much And So Then Both Of You Together May Come Up With Something That You BOTH Enjoy And BOTH Want To Do Sexually And Still Fill Your Wifes Needs And Fantasies.And Enjoyment ..

    So I Hope This Helps...As I Think "Talking Rather Than Filming " Is Best Thing To Do First Right Now Before You Go Down This Road "You Do Not Want To Be Walking Down" As I Am Sure You Both Love Each Other And Your Wife Wants To Make You Happy Just As Much As You Want To See Her Happy...
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    I Wish You Good Luck And Hope You Can Find Something That Makes You Both Happy And You Both Enjoy Together
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    I would go with her to a swingers club, that way you can get involved with a woman while your wife is there to watch and if she happens to change her mind she can stop things there and then, just be careful of predatory blokes, there are some idiots at some of these places. When I went with one of my girlfriends for pretty much the same reasons we found a bed in a corner so me and the other lady were between her and the rest of the people playing.

    To add to this, there ARE swingers web sites where you could make a profile as a couple and ask for a female who wishes to help you fulfill your wifes fantasy "Fabswingers" being a reasonable one, maybe a willing volunteer rather than an escort would help?
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    Originally Posted by Libido
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    We don't have an open relationship if we did I would not be in this conundrum.
    My wife has a fantasy and although I want to fulfill it I do not want an open relationship and she is not asking for that.
    We are married because we love each other very much and have for the last 25+ years.
    We both meditate and are at peace that doesn't mean we don't have fantasies and don't want new experiences. To genuinely be at peace one needs the answers not unanswered questions.
    Amuses me we have a relationship where we can talk about things like this together and explore but people just want to cast doubt on our marriage and solidity.
    Oh I see?So a threesome is'nt an "open"relationship?An open r/ship is when either or both of you screw around with other people,but not infront of eachother?I get it now!
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    For me personally,to genuinely be at peace,I need no complications,added stress etc in my life.But everyone is diff.
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    Originally Posted by popuptoaster
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    I would go with her to a swingers club, that way you can get involved with a woman while your wife is there to watch and if she happens to change her mind she can stop things there and then, just be careful of predatory blokes, there are some idiots at some of these places. When I went with one of my girlfriends for pretty much the same reasons we found a bed in a corner so me and the other lady were between her and the rest of the people playing.

    To add to this, there ARE swingers web sites where you could make a profile as a couple and ask for a female who wishes to help you fulfill your wifes fantasy "Fabswingers" being a reasonable one, maybe a willing volunteer rather than an escort would help?
    Neither interested in swinging scene. Don't want loads of people about. Just not our scene but thank you for the constructive advice

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    Originally Posted by Cobra
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    Oh I see?So a threesome is'nt an "open"relationship?An open r/ship is when either or both of you screw around with other people,but not infront of eachother?I get it now!
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    For me personally,to genuinely be at peace,I need no complications,added stress etc in my life.But everyone is diff.
    I have a different view of an open relationship to you obviously. I'd suggest we have a different view of inner peace. To me you are far from peace but more suffering from pent up anger. People truly at peace do not feel the need to be judge and jury on others or even feel the need to judge. I asked for advice not criticism and pent up anger.

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